A few years ago, when our group was much smaller, it was easier to connect, call, and remember everyone. I knew all the moms, their families, and their stories. I used to drive and meet one-on-one, call moms on my way back from work, and organize moms' dinners at various locations.
But things changed as the group grew, and I feel like I’m losing the connection I once had with the moms in the group. While moms are certainly connecting and building their village, it’s not in the way I envisioned. I miss the personal, face-to-face connections, the follow-up calls, and the effort to match moms with similar profiles, towns, or needs.
I know some have found connections, friendships, and more, and I’m so glad for that. But my heart aches for those still in their shell, living under the rock, and trying to manage everything on their own. They’re in the group but not benefiting as much as they could.
I wonder if this village is truly useful for everyone. For families with very young kids still struggling with a diagnosis or those with kids who have more abilities and busier lives, the group might not feel as relevant. Many moms seem lost, just surviving day by day, while some simply hope their kids will grow out of the challenges.
I wish I could make those follow-up calls, meet these moms, hear their concerns, and connect them with the right resources.and help them find their footing.
Perhaps it's time to rethink how this village works for everyone—whether they’re at the beginning of their journey, navigating challenges, or finding a new rhythm. My heart is with those who feel unseen, still struggling in silence. I hope we can build bridges for them, so every mom feels supported and empowered to thrive.
Help me create a community that lifts everyone, no matter where they are in their journey.
A Narayan peth saree for a Diwali get together.
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