I was at Cape Cod last weekend, and a visit to the beach reminded me how much we all need a lighthouse—something to remind us what life really means. Lighthouses are often located in extreme places, bearing harsh weather, fierce winds, and wild waters. Yet, in stormy conditions, they guide us with their steady, shining light.
As moms, we always have an endless list of things to do. From preparing for IEP meetings to finding a new therapist, reading about the latest treatment options, a new approach or adding yet another book on IEPs or disabilities to the mix—these are in addition to the everyday concerns of family, work, and managing the household.
With all that going on, who has time to think about themselves? But that’s the gravest mistake we moms make—forgetting ourselves. Someday, something backfires, and it’s overwhelming. The idea is to prevent that from happening. That’s why Desi Moms Network was built: to create a circle of friends who remind you that “you” matter.
Before you dream for your child, find your lighthouse (or even several, for different storms)—someone who will guide you with their shining light, help you weather the storm, and navigate you safely to the shore.
Hope you find your light house and be the one for many.
The Federation for Children with Special Needs hosted their annual gala. The theme was “Imagine” in celebration of their 50th anniversary—50 years of supporting families. I couldn’t be prouder to be associated with this organization as a board member.
For the evening, I wore an Uppada silk saree. While most people wore grey, black, or dark blue for this black-tie event, I enjoyed my bright orange and green, embracing the perfect colors for fall.
With some of my lighthouses
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